In a large sauté pan, melt the coconut oil over medium heat.
Add the red onion and sauté 3-5 minutes, until starting to look translucent.
Add the butternut squash and garlic, sauté while you make the topping.
In a food processor add the topping ingredient and pulse until the coconut and nuts are broken up, and the butter or coconut oil resembles pea-sized pieces.